1.Most abusers are sick and need help. It is a psychological thing. I don't think a person in his/her right mind will just beat and abuse someone continuously till the person dies. So you can't just ask or order them to stop abusing people.
2.If you talk about dealing with issues from the root,then we need to start from the homes. How we raise our kids. Most parents are damaged themselves and in turn raise damaged kids. Most abusers do things they learn from home. Every behavior of an adult is definitely linked to their childhood. Osinaachi's kids said their father told them it is right to beat their mum,obviously he must have observed his father or whomever raised him do the same. It is a vicious cycle that must be nipped in the bud.
3.Most parents abuse their kids without realizing it,cos they are just passing on the training(whether good or bad) they also received from their parents. Teach your kids independence of mind and body..teach them to rely on their own capabilities. Don't raise them to depend on other people,teach them to be free to express themselves and make healthy choices.
4.Our cultures and traditions force people into unhealthy situations and that's why people are mentally bankrupt. E,g marriages because a person is 'getting old' for example.
5. Everyone needs psychologically therapy throughout their lives the way we need regular physical checkups . The mind has to be decluttered regularly cos everything we go through as human beings is linked to our mental health.
MzTooknow Paemka
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Relationship/Lifestyle/Sex Coach and Motivational speaker.
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